Tuesday, 4 March 2014

REVIVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH LAW OF ATTRACTION !

                                       





One of the most common questions that  I encounter is, "Can I use law of attraction to bring back an Ex?" 



And the Answer to this is Yes! You can! And it’s Easy and difficult at the same time. But in the end it will depend on you. It doesn't matter if the relationship ended yesterday or last month or last year , it doesn't matter if you are here and they are a 1000 miles away . None of it matters, all that matters is, if you still love them?



Most of you will say, "Yes we do!" That's why we are here, reading your blog! We have tried for so long now, We have tried every move in the proverbial Book ! And now we are frustrated, and we have turned to the universe for help. Well, you have come to the right place, but before we start, I want to just make sure that you are pursuing whoever it is you are pursuing because of love, and not to prove a point, not because you think that you can’t get anyone else , not out of fear, not to feed your ego ,but because you are in love . 



Now how will you know if you are still in love, there are a million ways to know, but asking yourself and talking to yourself works best. 






PROCESS TO DETERMINE IF YOU STILL LOVE THEM ! 




1. Find a quiet place where no one can disturb you for at least 15 minutes .



2. Now sit down in a comfortable position, and close your eyes.



3. Take a few deep breaths.



4. Now just for a moment, concentrate on yourself, be entirely present in the moment, pay attention to your body, how it feels, just pull out all your awareness from the past, future, and be there in your body, be with yourself .



5. Know this that in this moment, sitting right here right now, you are free from everything. There is nothing that you need to do, there is nowhere that you need to be and there is nothing that can hurt you. For this 15 minutes you are here and you are free from all the worldly affairs of your life.  These 15 minutes are yours to relax! So Relax! 



6. Now when you feel like, search your awareness and find the most amazing person aside from your Ex that you know. This person can be anyone; someone you once had a crush on, someone who is way better than your Ex in looks, and nature and all other aspects. 



7. Once you have zeroed in on that better person, Ponder on this question.

       "Would i still want my Ex if this amazing person walked up to me and proposed me? " 



8. For a Moment consider this ,believe it is true, if this amazing person that you know of , or someone like that comes up to you tomorrow and proposes you, would you go for them or would you still want to patch things with your ex. 



Take a moment to process this thought in detail. 



If you happily  accepted this new and amazing person, then I must tell you that,  you are not in love with your Ex . What you are actually looking for is a happy and loving relationship , and that can come from anyone , it doesn't have to be your Ex. 



Now if the thought of accepting this new and improved person gave you mixed feelings, like cheating on your Ex, even though you are not in a relationship as of now, or if the thought of losing your Ex (despite all the kinks) popped up , and it didn't feel good. Then yes, you are still in love with your Ex , and you should read on .




Moving On..





Now First thing to know is that it is possible! And it is easy! It is already done! All you have to do is Relax and let the manifestation in. 



But relaxing ain't that easy in these situations, there is so much pain and hurt feeling and memories, that you are  in a constant battle with yourself. So first we have to take care of these feelings. You must know that these feelings of fear, and insecurity are the ones that landed you here in this situation in the first place. 



The Universe always monitors how you feel and then tries to  mould your experience accordingly so that you can have more of those feelings. 



YOUR FEELING IS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS. 



There are certain things that generally cause relationships to go bad. I’ll try to list all of them , and discuss how to tackle them.



FEELINGS OF UNWORTHINESS :



So you met the guy/ Girl of your dreams, someone who you would have never thought you can get in your wildest dreams. You got lucky. You put them on a pedestal, all of creation and god's creatures including you come in a second place to your Guy/ Girl. You are willing to change for them. You are so much in love that you get the stars and the moon for them, and you are perfectly happy with the 50 cent card they bought for you on your special day. You eat what they eat, you go where they go.



This is where things go bad. Sometimes while doing these things you start to lose yourself, When you think that your lover is out of your league, or superior to you, it gives out a signal of unworthiness to the universe. And the universe responds to it, by increasing your lover’s value in your eyes, and decreasing your own value in your eyes. So when a problem arises, even a small one you give up rationality and start looking  for what 'you' did wrong. With time the universe gives you more and more circumstances that make you feel more and more worthless. 





  "So what can i do about it ?"



Love yourself, Value yourself.  You should know That we live in a vibrational universe and in the eyes of the universe everyone is equal, everyone is beautiful and everyone is capable of greatness. When you first met the love of your life, it was you and your vibration that attracted them. The Universe doesn't decide your worth. You DO!  It is your belief that drives the universe to bring things into your experience. If you believe you are worthy, then you are worthy.  There is nothing wrong with you. You deserve to be put on a pedestal, you deserve to be loved and valued the same way you love and value your lover. And they will be happy to move the heavens and earth for you because they love you. When you truly believe this, the universe will start to change your experience. 





FEAR / INSECURITY :



Fear is generally based on past bad experiences. A woman who had been cheated on in a previous relationship will always be in fear of being cheated on in the current one as well. It gives birth to insecurity, and once you are consumed by it, the universe gets the signal, and BAM ! You experience a situation where you get to live your fear! 


"So what can i do about it  ?"



Know that you are the sole creator of your experience on this planet. Know this that at the core every human being on this planet is looking for happiness, we are all the same. Know this that you and your lover came together, because the universe found you guys to be the perfect match and both of you fulfilled each others’ requirements to be happy. Know this that it is you who can invite in bad experiences by thinking and holding on to fear and insecurity. Know this that the past or whatever happened in the past has no power over you, whatever happened then, you invited it in, and now if you let go of that bad experience it will also  leave you forever. Know this that you have manifested a loving partner who values you respects you and loves you as much as you love them, and they would never do anything to hurt you or betray you. So take a breather and let the feelings of fear and insecurity go.



EXTERNAL FACTORS !  





You want it, but they don’t, for some reason that seems absurd when you think about it, but that's the way it is. The parents are not agreeing, your lover isn't looking to settle down yet, you are in a long distance relationship, they found someone better, different religion , different skin color , different caste , need I go on ? 


"So what can i do about this ?"  




 Well it works like this, The universe will give you whatever you want, whatever you place your focus on. All the other people in your experience are there to fulfill their roles that you have assigned to them. Their thoughts and wishes  don't have any effect on your experience, so if you think you are not in control of the situation, think again! The problem that arose, is just an external manifestation of a limitation that you have sub consciously imposed on yourself. And as soon as you find and let go of that limitation, things will start to get better. Just focus on what you want and don’t listen to the noise around you and you’ll be fine.


Now that we have addressed the limitations, we can move onto the part on how to revive the relationship.

So, I can go on and describe some visualizing exercises where you can imagine yourself and them dancing around a tree to a bollywood song with backup dancers and everything or I can keep it simple. 

Ok I will keep it simple.

The most 'Important' and the most 'overlooked' truth when practicing the law of attraction is, 

"When it comes to effecting change (big or little, but especially Big ) be it manifesting the life of your dreams or reviving a relationship or getting that perfect parking space , 'thinking' is immeasurably more valuable when used to imagining what you want - the end result- than to figure out how you are going to get it. " 

All you have to do is to be at a feeling place of where you want to be, and the universe will do its part and get you there .The best way to do so is , think about what you want. 

So what do you want?

"I want to be in a loving relationship with {enter name}!"

And how is that going to make you feel? 

"Happy , relaxed , secure , excited , in love ,  [enter more feelings here]"

So if you can feel all those feelings right now the universe will bring you more of those feelings and more and more, and before you know it your lover will be standing on that door, asking you to take them back. 
 



All you have to do is "Trust the universe", and from that place of trust and calmness you have to anticipate the arrival of your lover back into your life. Its like, you know they are coming to you and you are excited about it. And how do you know that its working???



Well you feel good!!! If right now you feel the love and you feel good and relaxed and calm, then you are on the right path, then you are doing your part and vibrating in the right place, and now you trust the universe to do its part and deliver to you your, manifestation. 

Think of the universe as your competent secretary, one who never fails you and delivers whatever you ask for. So just tell it what you want and relax. 

So that's  the gist of it all. if you have any questions , contact me on the facebook page or leave a comment here.

Here are a few exercises that would help you let go of limitations and help you get in the feeling mode . Do them daily !









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